could someone give advise on getting the forks apart? I have a
haynes manual,but can't see the pictures because of poor
quality. I've tried the steps in the manual,but they wont come
apart. Also does any one know wear I mite find some forks or
parts used or new?

Try norvilmotorcycles.com for parts. What is stuck ? Seal retainer unscrewed, damper bolt out of the bottom, push the stantion into the slider and let it pop back out. Repeat. The seal should come out with the upper bushing. If not, heat the slider up to 200 F and try again.